On a burner.
I am 29 m. My parents didnt see that my wife 28 has a big heart and has a awesome personality or how beautiful she is. All they saw was that she was deaf. I asked them how ignorant can they be? They argued that she will pass her disability onto any children we have.
Long story short, they said they won't accept her into the family. I said then you arent accepted into ours and any children we have they arent going to know about them. Jessie cried when I reluctantly had to tell her why they werent attending our wedding. I hated them more for that. Only my sister 29 came and she the only one I speak to but I havent spoken or seen my parents since.
We now have twins. A boy and girl. They are both hearing. My sister came to vist and said our parents found out about them and asked her to ask me and Jessie if they can meet them. I immediately shut that down. Told my sister to remind them they rejected Jessie first and they can f**k off. My sister later texted and said they both want to apologize. I said it to late.
I told Jessie about the request she said maybe we can reconsider and take it slow. My friend said it can be the healing and closure I need. I don't know if I want it. I dont know if they are wanting to see my children because they found out they are hearing. I don't know if Im being selfish and only thinking about how I feel. AITAH?